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| Flirty "Friend" |
| ANGELA ASKED on 10-07-2008 |
What can I do if he says that he only flirts with me 'as friends' but I know he wants me...?
I have a friend, who has ALWAYS-since the day we met-flirted with me. I told him that I have feelings for him. Now he says that he only flirts with me "as friends."
I am so frustrated. I know that I am a Scorpio and he is a Gemini, and that doesn't always help, but COME ON! Every one of our mutual friends is convinced that he wants to be with me, but just won't admit it. Two months ago he was trying to get me to sneak off and make out with him, and two weeks ago he suggested that one of my friends and I go fool around with him (we are really not that type of ladies). What is up? Is he damaged or something? (BTW, he and I are both @30 years old)
I really care about him, otherwise I would tell him right where he could go.
Maybe one of my friends was right when he said to the other lady "They are so perfect together, but he will never see it."
I will love to see anybody's answers, but right now I want to cry.
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| NURSE NIKITA ANSWERED |
First off, it sounds as tho you are both very funloving, playful personalities & have an enjoyable "friendship". Second... dont cry, its not worth it!
It seems as tho ur flirty friend is childish & playing games with you. If he did want to "be with you" why wouldn't he admit it??? he would, if he wanted to be with you. He's playing fun little high school games.
He probably enjoys the attention he gets by being such a flirt, but doesn't care much for the sencerity of a real relationship, hence the wanting of you & your friend to fool around with him. That tells me he has no respect for real feelings or true intimacy.
when he tried to get u to "sneak off & makeout with him", what happened? did you? it doesnt sound like you did & why not?.. if you want him so bad, what transpired out of that? Maybe you already realize that he is not sincere & it would just be silly fun for him.
I think you should find out about his past relationships & how well they went & how long they lasted, etc. There is obviously something in him you are attracted to, but maybe if you find out more about who he is, you may see the whole picture clearer.
In the mean time, try not to hang with him so much, hang with different people on different nights. Not only does that take your mind off of always thinking about your feelings for him, but it will open up new opportunities for you!
Good Luck
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2 replies to "Flirty "Friend""
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| OHDOCTAH SAID on 10-09-2008 at 12:18 AM |
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| ANGELA SAID on 10-10-2008 at 9:25 PM |
| Thanks, I appreciated the Nurse Nikita's advice. And the video was stellar. You guys are trouble on wheels ;) |
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